How to Make Your First Date Super Awesome |
Posted: May 26, 2017 |
Turning your first time acquaintance to your best friend isn’t something that happens every day. You might have met at the restaurant, coffee, park, live concert or mistakenly ran into each other. However, asking your new friend to go on a date with you may be a tough nut to crack. You should thank your lucky stars if the response was positive. But the truth of the matter is that the first date is very delicate. It could make or mar your entire journey of friendship or your level of closeness. Therefore, you must do everything to make it fun. Follow these little tips and you’ll make a super awesome first date. Suggest a good location Don’t be too fast. Keep calm and take things easy. You should have it in mind that the location you’d be choosing, your choice of food should be unique. Also, you don’t have to pre-plan the theme of your discussion; let it come spontaneously. Let her choose You should make your date very comfortable. Start by asking her to suggest a location but be sure that you can get great food there. She’d be more comfortable knowing that she chose the venue herself. Ladies love dudes that are ready to sacrifice their time and comfort. Be prepared Don’t go on a date looking unkempt. Go an extra mile to look good but don’t overdo it. Use a deodorant or manly cologne, have a new haircut, and make sure you trim and clean your nails. Make the conversation exciting Don’t start with a food or drink because it causes distractions. Start with an exciting conversation. The last thing you want to do is start a conversation about how your job sucks. Spice up your date with a topic that’s exciting and something she would be comfortable with. You’re still a stranger, you know. Don’t be over confident A date is meant to get you the two of to know each other better and to share some fun. Therefore, you shouldn’t even try what will ruin the moment by making it all about you. Being overconfident and bragging over your personal feats is wrong. Be modest. Keep few ideas in mind and bring them one at a time. Don’t be loquacious. Listen to her perspectives too. Shy guy? Start with a movie Starting a date with a movie is a good idea to get over your shyness. Between the movies, you’ll have intermittent talks and laughter, and that could help to break that shyness. It’s a good way to break the ice. Make time for a short walk Don’t plan a date without a short walk. Walking is important. It opens the opportunity for you to have a swell time together. Talking about things you see and feel while taking a walk creates natural feelings that you can always cherish. Don’t plan one activity Chances are you’ve not known your date very well. Have plans for more than three activities. Should you sense she isn’t comfortable at a place, be quick to ask her if she would like another place; then relocate there. As simple as a date might be, it’ll be a memorable experience that could strengthen your intimacy and give you credits for your date’s friends even before you meet them. Have a lovely date.
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